(taken from a comment posted on a poll on deviantart)

I have been heartbroken from long distance relationships quite a few times. I think long distance relationships can and do work, but not for everyone. If you are one of the people with trust issues who is always afraid of your partner cheating, you will probably have a hard time making a normal relationship working let alone a long distance one. Long distance relationships take extra patience, trust, honesty, dedication, and if you want to see your partner anytime soon: a fair bit of cash flow. Also, if the relationship comes from two people who have met on the internet, I would say it is important for both people to know that knowing someone in person is much different from only talking on the phone/im/e-mail/webcam. So much of human communication is body language and those in a long distance relationships normally don't get to witness that often (short visit or webcam) if they see each other at all. Plus, not to be a pessimist but, not being able to be around your partner whenever you want makes it a lot easier for both of you to hide the flaws that you don't want the other to see. (no one is 100% open) As much as I would love to think that meeting someone you have known awhile on the internet won't change much in the relationship, the fact is it could change everything. It's almost like meeting a stranger, a stranger of whom you know lots of personal information. Does this mean that I am against meeting people on the internet? Not at all.

In fact, this Sunday a friend/boyfriend of mine who I have been talking to for 5 years is coming to visit me all the way from California for 10 days. (I live in Wisconsin.) Personally, I am surprised that I am not a nervous mess right now. There is still a part of me that wonders, “What if he doesn’t like me?” But for the most part, I am excited. We have a few plans already made (going to the Milwaukee Art Museum, a picnic in the park, fireworks for the 4th by the lake, cooking lunch together and watching a movie, (Across the Universe or RENT ) and a tour of the city by public bus) but otherwise we are just going to wing it. He is bringing his camera and said he will let me borrow it so hopefully I will get some good shots.

Hope this helped.

RULE 1
You can only say Guilty or Innocent.

RULE 2
You are not allowed to explain anything unless someone messages you and asks!
(So people reading this, if you want an explanation, comment.)


Asked someone to marry you?
- Innocent.

Kissed one of your Facebook friends?
- Guilty

Danced on a table in a bar?
- Innocent.

Ever told a lie?
- Guilty.

Had feelings for someone whom you can't have back?
- Guilty.

Ever kissed someone of the same sex?
- Guilty.

Kissed a picture?
- Guilty.

Slept in until 5 PM?
- Guilty.

Fallen asleep at work/school?
- Innocent/guilty.

Held a snake?
- Guilty.

Been suspended from school?
- Guilty.

Worked at a fast food restaurant?
- Innocent.

Been fired from a job?
- Innocent.

Done something you regret?
- Guilty.

Laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose?
- Guilty.

Caught a snowflake on your tongue?
- Guilty.

Kissed in the rain?
- Innocent.

Sat on a roof top?
- Innocent.

Kissed someone you shouldn't?
- Guilty.

Sang in the shower?
- Guilty.

Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on?
- Innocent.

Shaved your head?
- Innocent.

Slept naked?
- Guilty.

Had a boxing membership?
- Innocent.

Made a boyfriend/girlfriend cry?
- Guilty.

Been in a band?
- Innocent.

Shot a gun?
- Innocent.

Donated Blood?
- Innocent.

Eaten alligator meat?
- Innocent.

Eaten cheesecake?
- Guilty.

Still love someone you shouldn't?
- Guilty.

Have/had a tattoo?
- Innocent.

Liked someone, but will never tell who?
- Guilty.

Been too honest?
- Guilty.

Ruined a surprise?
- Guilty.

Ate in a restaurant and got so bloated that you can't walk afterwards?
- Innocent.

Erased someone in your friends list?
- Guilty.

Dressed in a woman's clothes (if you're a guy) or man's clothes (if you're a girl)?
- Innocent.

Joined a pageant?
- Innocent.

Been told that you're handsome or beautiful by someone who totally meant what they said?
- Guilty.

Had communication w/ your ex?
- Guilty.

Dating Someone?
- Innocent.

Get totally drunk one night and you had an important exam tomorrow morning?
- Innocent

A total stranger treat you by paying your jeepney fare?
- ...Huh? o_O

Get totally angry that you cried so hard?
- Guilty.

Have you ever made out in your room?
Only 2 people have made out in my room, neither of them were me. It pissed me off cuz I asked them not to.

What is something you currently want right now?
a few things: no more headache, carbs, and Rachel (In a non dirty way)

Are you missing someone?
Mhm.

Do you have plans for tomorrow?
My sister's 18th birthday at olive garden

Do you get cranky when you’re hungry?
depends on why i am hungry, usually yes

Where will you be tomorrow at this time?
in bed or online

When was the last time you wore black pants?
to take prom pictures with my sister

Do you hope your children are like you one day?
That would mean that i would have to have children, so no

Do you regret anything?
Often.

What's usually colder, your hands or your feet?
feet

What do you own with zebra print on it?
errr, im not into animal print

Do you want to get married?
*shrug* not one of my life goals but if i find myself ready and willing to do so thats ok too

Have you ever kissed anyone?
a few...

Do your parents force you to go to church?
used to

Do you curse in front of your parents?
not extensively

Does anyone hate you?
*shrug* Wouldn't be surprised.

If the last person that you kissed said they wanted to marry you, what would you say?
give him the WTF face

Are you afraid of the dark?
if i am in a familiar place, no

Do you continue fighting in an argument even though you're wrong?
i don't argue much except with my sister so i pick my battles and im almost never 100% wrong

Was it a boy or a girl to call you last?
boy

How are you feeling right now?
Kinda tired, have a migraine, lonely

Would you rather sleep with someone else or alone?
i like cuddles

What's your last text say?
some spam/chain txt from R/J

What were you wearing when you last kissed someone?
my kiwi shirt and my sexy jeans

Have you ever skipped school just because you were tired?
heh...

Do you have a TV?
not mine personally, its the family tv

How many times have you kissed the last person you kissed?
once, and it will probably stay that number

Do you like Red Bull?
ewwww

Who did you last share a blanket with?
jess maybe

Do you personally know anyone with breast implants?
No.

Have you ever looked for something and its already in your hand?
oh yes

Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoos?
not really but rachel is

Are you currently jealous?
yes

Do you have your tonsils?
Yes

If you could own a nontraditional pet what would it be?
baby polar bear

Have you ever crawled through a window?
tried and failed

How many colors has your hair been?
2

Has the last person you texted ever been mad at you before?
Nathan, no

Have you ever searched for your own house on Google Earth?
I have it placemarked

Do any of your friends have a tongue stud?
one or 2

When will be the next time you text someone?
later today i w8ill text nathan and annoy him

How much money did you spend today?
none

Have you ever cried while in the shower?
Yeah.

Do you know anyone that smokes pot?
Yes.

Have you ever slept in the same bed as your friend?
once, or twice

Do you know anyone with the same name as you?
Mhm, but they're all assholes.

Last person you talked on the phone with?
Andrew

Who do you blame for your bad mood today?
God?

Have you ever done anything illegal?
I have.

Has anyone ever borrowed something from you and never returned it back?
YES.

Today did you hug a person you have feelings for?
no

Who is the one person who really understands you?
*shrug*

In the next 2 months, what are you looking forward to most?
i have no plans

Do you open up to a lot of people?
yeah, more than i should i think.

How do you think the year will end for you?
i am trying not to think about it

What type of shoes did you wear today?
none

What are you listening to right now?
the route 86 bus pass by

Where did you get the shirt you're wearing?
fashion bug?

Is there someone you don't ever want to be out of your life?
things change and everyone is disposable... *cynic*

Your Boy Side:
[X] you love hoodies
[X] you love jeans
[X] dogs are better than cats
[] its hilarious when people get hurt
[X] shopping is torture
[X] sad movies suck
[] you play XBOX 360/PS2
[] you played with Hot Wheels as a little kid
[] at some point in life you wanted to be a firefighter
[] you owned a DS, PS2 or Sega
[X] you used to be obsessed with Power Rangers
[] you watch sports on TV
[X] you go to your dad for advice ((sometimes))
[] you own like a trillion baseball hats
[] you used to collect collector cards
[] baggy sweatpants are cool to wear
[X] its kind of weird to have sleepovers with a bunch of people
[X] green, black, red, blue, or silver are one of your favorite colors
[X] you love to go crazy and not care what other people think
[] sports are fun
[] you talk with food in your mouth
[] you sleep at night with your socks on
[] you have fished at least once
Total: 10

YOUR GIRL SIDE:

[] you love to shop
[] you wear eyeliner
[] you wear the color pink
[X] you go to your mom for advice (well, I would, if I could)
[X] you consider cheer-leading a sport
[] you wear very little black
[] you hate wearing the color black
[] you like going to the mall
[] you cried watching A Walk to Remember
[X] skirts are a part of your wardrobe
[] shopping is one of your favorite hobbies
[X] you take around one hour to shower
[X] you are/were in gymnastics/tumbling
[X] you smile a lot more than you should
[] you have more than 10 pairs of shoes
[X] you care about what you look like
[X] you always/sometimes wear dresses (i like long skirts better than jeans most of the time, just cuz they is comfy. I look rediculous in them though)
[X] you like wearing body spray
[] you like high heel shoes (hate them, they are oh so painful!)
[X] you used to play with dolls as a kid
[X] you like putting makeup on others
[] pink is one of your favorite colors
[] you laugh more than you breathe
[] you absolutely love chocolate
Your total: 11


Hmmm

1) What is your salad dressing of choice?
Ranch.

2) What is your favorite sit-down restaurant?
Olive Garden. I italian.

3) What food could you eat for 2 straight meals not get sick of it?
Soup. And I've done it too. Actually ate soup and popsicles for a week straight. (Ah, the joys of bronchitis)

4) What are your pizza toppings of choice?
mushrooms, lots. fresh are the best

5) What do you like to put on your toast?
I use toast for sandwiches.

6) How many televisions are in your house?
1

7) What color cell phone do you have?
Red

8) Are you right-handed or left-handed?
Right-handed.

9) Have you ever had anything removed from your body?
nothing that I didn't put in?

10) What is the last heavy item you lifted?
a box I think, of books

11) Have you ever been knocked unconscious?
No

12) If it were possible, would you want to know the day you were going to die?
i dont think so

13) If you could change your name, what would you change it to?
Elizabeth.

14) Would you drink an entire bottle of hot sauce for $1,000?
Fuck no.

15) How many pairs of flip flops do you own?
uh, none at the moment

16) What’s your goal for the year?
finish a goddamn story

17) Last person you talked to?
On IM - Miss Lola
On the phone - Daniel (glare of death)
in person - my dad

18) Last person you hugged?
Stacy

19) Favorite Season?
Spring

20) Favorite Holiday?
May Day

21) Favorite day of the week?
Monday *gasp* I know. But nate is off on monday and i get to be alone after a weekend with my family

22) Favorite Month?
June I guess

23) First place you went this morning?
the bathroom...

24) What's the last movie you saw?
Oceans eleven

25) Do you smile often?
At all the wrong times it seems.

26) Do you always answer your phone?
Almost always. Unless I know it is Andrew or Daniel

27) It's four in the morning and you get a text message.
i wont rear it normally and i will keep on sleeping

28) If you could change your eye color what would it be?
deep ocean blue

29) What flavor drink do you get at Sonic?
heh, like we have a Sonic here...

30) Have you ever had a pet fish?
2. Genevive is my namesake.

31) Favorite Christmas song?
Carol of the bells and anything TSO

32) What's on your wish list for your birthday?
the real on or the "if i could have anything" list
real - some markers and stickers for my journal
anything - err... pass

33) Can you do push ups?
...no...

34) Can you do pull ups?
see above

35) Does the future make you more nervous or excited?
Scares the hell out of me.

36) Do you have any saved texts?
a few. most from mitch

37) Ever been in a car wreck?
Not anything life-threatening, but yeah. With my mom and sister.

38) Do you have an accent?
everyone has an accent. and aparently my fake british one is pretty good

39) What is the last song to make you cry?
Christmas shoes...

40) Plans tonight?
had some but they have yet to come to fruition

41) Have you ever felt like you hit rock bottom?
yes, too often. perrty close to the bottom now

42) Name 3 things you bought yesterday.
yesterday? nothing. most recently? a journal, gel pens and my sisters b-day gift

43) Have you ever been given roses?
Yes but not by people other than family so i dont really count it

44) Current hate right now?
men who think i am their sex toy

45) Met someone who changed your life?
everyone you meet changes your life

46) How did you bring in the New Year?
coughing and kicking out my dad's psycho ex (hes finally filing a restraining order)

47) What song represents you?
Matchbox 20 - Unwell

48) Name three people who might complete this?
Lola, Cat, uh Rachel?

49) What were you doing 12 AM last night?
Journaling

50) What was the first thing you thought of when you woke up?
oh fuck its early